It’s no secret that men tend to congregate around attractive women vastly upper her chances of being asked out by the few attractive men in the Church.
Sure, a woman may not be able to improve her facial genetics, but a nice toned body indicates to a man that she cares about her physical appearance and that it is attractive.
This can be due to any number of factors including: There are obviously many other factors, but in many cases the Church has become a place that is extremely unwelcoming for men.
There are many topics that discuss this but no one wants to do anything about it.
Simply put, most men’s ministries are sad shells of what they could be.
Most of the time it’s men getting together maybe once a month to talk to each other about their failings.
You need your foot in the door to even have a shot at becoming a keeper to a man.
Most men don’t like women who are overweight or obese. The second issue has to do with the feminization of the church.
The older men could give advice, mentor, and disciple these younger men.Likewise, the same can be true of the women’s ministries.This would fulfill the passages of Titus 2 among other discipleship and mentoring passages which are from older men to younger men and older women to younger women.The two main areas that I always suggest to women who do want men to “step up and lead” are: You really want to know why there are no eligible Christian masculine men?The atmosphere in the church is hostile to such men.However, the sad case is that no one really cares about the young men in the Church.They are allowed to drift along by their own feelings.The atmosphere of worship, teaching, Bible study, and even fellowship is not one that men want to hang out in most of the time.Women are clogging up all of the leadership positions that men would otherwise use to learn and grow as leaders.The women don’t encourage men as they are growing and learning to be men. How would it be if you’re a single woman and the men are complaining that there are no good Christian single women in the Church? This should be pretty clear given many of my posts geared toward teaching men how to be men and giving examples of what they need to do to find a godly wife.The two main examples being: my 5 step process to maturity in relationships, andmy detailed timeline and how-to guide to finding a wife.