If you are willing to put forth the effort it takes to browse through a lot of profiles and send hundreds of messages, you have what it takes to meet a lot of singles in the U. I created this post as a guide to help you find the best online dating site for you. Chemistry.com: A sister site to Match.com, is for people who are interested in a serious relationship (similar to eharmony).
I’ve done online dating extensively in the United States, read a ton of reviews, and listened to the experiences of friends who have tried out the various sites below. The signup process can be a bit tedious, but I am always for thorough sign up processes because it helps weed out the unmotivated daters and spammers.
Black People Meet.com: This site has a lot of users both in the U. For the best results, you can sign up for both sites.
I’m always for casting the net as wide as possible. Afrointroductions.com: If I had limited money, I would stick to the first two black-oriented sites above due to the sheer number of members those sites have.
The best online dating sites in the United States have millions of members. is so great for online dating because there is a site for pretty much any niche or interest you can imagine. is that you have millions of singles to choose from. I used this site for two years while I was living in New York and had quite a few dates.
BBWCupid.com: You know I’m a big fan of the Cupid media sites.BBWCupid has the usual awesome, clean interface with all the functionality you will find in my most favorite sister site, Brazil (for people living in Brazil).This site for plus-sized people is fabulous and has lots of members spread across the U. A quick search of women aged 21-35 who live in the New York area will return over 1000 profiles. If I were starting a dating search for black people, I would start with and then go to this site after the well has run dry.Interracial Match.com: I’m all about expanding your horizons beyond your race.My dream is that one day race isn’t as much of a factor as it is today in who we chose to partner with. If you are in the United States (or even Canada), eharmony is the first site I would sign up for. is a good site, but with eharmony, because of the exhaustive questionnaire you have to fill out when you sign up, you will spend less time weeding through low quality profiles.Plentyoffish.com: Plenty of Fish (POF) is completely free to use and sign up. I also found that the overall quality of the members on POF was lower than the pay sites I mentioned above.Sign up for POF when you have completely exhausted the other fine options above.Okcupid.com: I used several times in the past and have never had success with it.It is 100% free to use and 100% low quality in my view.